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Sunday, 16 December 2012

Merry Christmas, Kiss my Ass: My Rant of the Day!!

It's crazy some of the things you end up inexplicably watching on a Sunday morning. 

 

Here's the thing, and I'm going to take a stand here and you can hate me for it if you want to - defriend me or whatever... If being a "Christian" means being judgemental, preachy and rude - then I am not one. 


If you are not hurting me I could give a flying *bleep* what you do or what you believe in - black, white, red, yellow, gay, straight, trans or sado-masochistic, 50 shades of grey loving s.o.b., Christian, Muslim or Buddhist - whatever!!! I don't care.

Just be good and kind.

Fact is, you're not going to be good and kind 100% of the time... that's just the way it is. We are human and not perfect. But just do a decent job of trying - and, I can guarantee that whoever is awaiting you in the great beyond - even if it is nothingness - will envelope you without judgement or penalty.

So, to quote the immortal words of Clark Griswald... "Merry Christmas. Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas, Merry Christmas, kiss my ass. Kiss his ass. Kiss your ass. Happy Hanukkah." and don't forget Kwanzaa and Ramadan - "Hallelujah! Holy sh!t! Where's the Tylenol?" :)

Thursday, 6 December 2012

A Wish to build a Dream on - For Lily-Mae


One early winters night a wish went out that was heard around the world.

A wish is a very powerful thing, especially when it's full of goodness and hope. This wish was exactly that and not one soul who heard it, could ignore it.

Who sent this wish you ask and why? Well, it was a little girl in Ireland whose name is Lily-Mae and her wish is to be healthy and happy.


Lily-Mae is a child, much like many others; She is bright, beautiful and full of life... but unlike other children, she must fight for her life every day. You see, Lily-Mae lives most of her life in a hospital where she is surrounded by her parents, doctors, nurses and sadly, other children who must also fight for life just like her.

Lily-Mae's days, just like yours, are full of tests, appointments and meetings. However they do not take place at school or work - they take place in the hospital.



Lily-Mae and her parents try to live life as normally as possible. They have love and they have hope. Most of all, just like you - they dream!


When Lily-Mae and her parents are fast asleep they dream of wondrous things and far off places.


Lily-Mae dreams of things that you and I might take for granted or have maybe never even thought of. In her dreams she runs, plays and goes on trips with her parents to places like the Zoo or to the Ballet. She dreams that she is healthy and has overcome disease and cancer.



At night Lily-Mae's dreams take flight and she is transformed into a beautiful fairy, dancing pirouettes across the sky!



Tonight when you lay down to sleep, think of Lily-Mae and her parents. Think of how lucky you are... and send out a loving and thoughtful wish that just might make Lily-Mae's dreams come true!!





A Wish for Lily-Mae

Lily-Mae, 
we hope and pray
for you to enjoy
each wonderful day!

Across the miles
we're sending you smiles.
Our love to you
in all that you do

Your Strength and courage;
your love and light.
It brings us hope
and sets dreams aflight

Believe, keep faith
and make a wish.
May every dream come true, 
for an angel like you.



Lily-Mae

Lily-Mae is battling for her life against Neuroblastoma … a rare and extremely aggressive childhood cancer of the nervous system and is currently in Our Lady’s Children's Hospital in Dublin following surgery to remove a tumour last week.

Lily-Mae’s only hope for survival is immunotherapy but that’s not available in Europe because it’s still on trial. It’s available in the US but it’s very expensive so a trust has been set up to help raise the money needed.
To find out more on how you can donate to help Lily-Mae and her parents please email Madeleine at maxmcdonnell@aol.com. Send whatever you can … a dollar, a euro, a pound … anything. Donations can be made through Paypal with the registered email address being maxmcdonnell@aol.com or, if you don’t have a Paypal account, send Madeleine your email address and she will send you a Paypal invoice with instructions on how you can pay as a guest.Please visit - http://www.facebook.com/irelandandpegscottage?ref=ts&fref=ts for more updates on Lily-Mae and how you may help!!

Slainte!

Saturday, 1 December 2012

My Christmas Wish

It truly amazes me sometimes when I log into the back end of my blog... People are reading it. Lots of people - people from everywhere; from Texas to Reykjavik to South Africa and Australia. I may not average the kind of visits that some sites do, nonetheless you visit and I am truly thankful for that :) I hope that when you visit you find something helpful or positive and that you are able to take it with you when you go. I also hope that you will come back again!
...

In one month I begin my official countdown to treatment. January 9th is the day - and I can't wait! I look forward to having this journey through thyroid cancer behind me and I look forward to what life has in store. I wish and I hope that it will all be good things. It has been hard to keep positive of late... and I am cracking under the weight of it all. Still I try. All I can do is try - to keep on keeping on. Things are bound to look up - right? This is what I tell myself everyday. I keep on smiling :) Even when I'm told otherwise.



This Christmas, more than anything I may wish for me, I wish that my Mom could have her health - I wish her the ability to enjoy the season and to be able to have some comfort. 

This has proven to be the most difficult Christmas to come to terms with. Even last year, the first without my Dad, was easier than this year. Last year my Mom was "well", I was "well" and our family was together. This year it's a fight to find that same semblance of balance and comfort. It hurts. It's been hard and I am struggling to keep hold of the light, the peace and the joy that this time of year usually brings.

Through it all there are still bright gleaming moments of great things to be thankful and happy for; Friends and family; the sights, sounds and smells of the season; a warm loving home to come home too and the joy of being able to see family who live far away. 

Compared to many, I know that am very lucky indeed and I am grateful for all that I do have. I wish everyone the ability to see the wonderful things that they do have already... be grateful for the little things you have. Those little things may very well be more than some could ever hope for.

Things will get better - I hope... I believe... I have faith. I know. :) They just have to!

I wish one and all, all of the happiness that this season has to offer no matter where it is that you come from or what it is that you believe.


xx






Tuesday, 6 November 2012

Pay it forward - the whole year through!

I watched the news this morning (as I normally do every morning) and I was sad to see a segment on "Pay it Forward Day." A day when people in a variety of communities do nice things for other people and then hand them a card and tell them to pay it forward. They suggest doing things like opening a door, letting someone go first or ahead of you in line... businesses like dental offices give aid to those in need and without dental coverage... This makes me sad - should this not be things that we do the whole year through!!
It reminds me of why I put up my Christmas decorations so early every year...

Reconsider Christmas

Maybe you think I'm crazy...
Maybe you think I'm nuts.
Why is my tree up so Early?
Christmas already comes too soon – why all the fuss!?

If at all you think this, perhaps I can change your mind.
Perhaps I can inspire you to leave your worrying thoughts behind.

So, if you think I'm silly
Or if you think Christmas is much too much;
Too much headache,
Too much stress.
Much, much, too much,
Stuff, stuff, stuff.

I'll have you reconsider that there's more, much more to Christmas
And it should run the whole year through.
It's heartfelt joy and cheerfulness
It's peace and understanding too.
It's hope, it's faith, it's friendship
It's love everlasting and true.

Christmas is more than gifts.
It's more, much more than getting.
It's the warmth and the light,
that throughout the year we're forgetting.

Let the joy of Christmas be with you,
Let it fill your heart.
And when you feel that smile cross your lips,
Know that now is as good a time as any to let Christmas start.

;)

*Pay it forward - THE WHOLE YEAR THROUGH!!!*


Sophia Sneak Peak

Ta da!!...
Cook in the kitchen with Bridget the maid... a place Sophia is not supposed to go!

Eek! Sophia & Minnie hiding in the cupboard with some furry little friends.

Papa's study... shh, we mustn't disturb him while he is working.


Sophia is coming folks :) Soon you will be able to purchase your copy of Sophia Takes the Cake in either ebook or hard copy!!

Sophia is coming to life thanks to to Michael Marcotte and his wonderful imagination and his skills as an artist... if you haven't already, be sure to visit him at www.apolloartproductions.com/

 Stayed tuned for more...


;)

Monday, 22 October 2012

How to do a Thyroid Neck Check

Just thought I would share something that could be helpful in diagnosing either Thyroid Disease or Thyroid Cancer, something I was diagnosed with myself this past summer. Last summer thyroid cancer wasn't something I had even considered or thought I would have. Last October my family doctor did an examination of my neck and found that my thyroid was enlarged. Now a year on I live with Thyroid cancer. After initial ultrasounds, blood work and biopsies cancer was not found and I was told I did not have it. Then I had my thyroid removed - and there it was...

It all started with a "Neck Check."

According to the American Cancer Society:

"about 56,460 new cases of thyroid cancer (43,210 in women, and 13,250 in men) will be diagnosed in the United States in 2012. The likelihood of being diagnosed with thyroid cancer has been on the rise, and is now more than double than in 1990.
An estimated 1,780 will die of thyroid cancer during 2012. Thyroid cancer is, however, considered one of the least deadly and most survivable cancers, and 5-year survival rates for thyroid cancer are almost 97%.
Thyroid cancer is more common in younger people, and nearly two-thirds of those diagnosed with thyroid cancer are between the ages of 20 and 55.
Thyroid cancer is one of the few cancers on the rise in recent years, with a growth rate of about 6% a year since 1997. Many experts believe that the increase is primarily due to greater use of thyroid ultrasound technology, which is better able to detect previously malignant thyroid nodules that, in the past, likely went undetected. Some of the increased rate is, however, due to detection of an increasing number of larger thyroid tumor."



The Thyroid Neck Check

To underscore the importance of early detection, the American Association of Clinical Endocrinologists (AACE) encourages Americans to perform a simple self-exam they call the "Thyroid Neck Check." Examining your neck can in some cases help you find lumps or enlargements in the neck that may point to thyroid conditions, including nodules, goiter and thyroid cancer. To detect a thyroid abnormality early, or lumps that may indicate potential thyroid cancer, follow these steps to perform your own "Thyroid Neck Check:"

1. Stand in front of a mirror
2. Stretch neck back
3. Swallow water
4. Look for enlargement in neck (below the Adam's Apple, above the collar bone)
5. Feel area to confirm enlargement or bump
6. If any problem is detected, see an doctor

Note: The "Neck Check" is not conclusive. A thorough examination by a physician is needed to diagnose or rule out thyroid cancer.

***Please visit  http://thyroid.about.com/od/thyroidcancer/a/neckcheck.htm to read the full article by Mary Shomon and to find out more about thyroid cancer and disease.***

Sunday, 14 October 2012

Dummy up your Children's Book - Danu

 
Creating a dummy of a children's book you have created is a good way to get an idea of what your book should look like when it's complete - well, sans illustrations. You can create a dummy using scrapbook papers and really dress it up or you could just use plain paper and paste in the text, leaving blank the areas where you would wish illustrations to go. It's pretty simple to do and can add some dimension to your idea - it can bring new life to a project because lets face it, waiting for a book to be published (if you are going the traditional route) can take a long time. Even if you are going the non-traditional, self-publishing route it can take a while. 
If you are not artistic or you just don't have the time to make your own illustrations, it can be time consuming to find someone who is. This is the point that I'm at right now... I could do the illustrations myself but I was hoping to have another perspective on the story and the images. I guess it's also a lack of confidence in my own ability to draw everything out. Plus, when I was considering going the traditional route of publication the author is asked not to source their own illustrations. That is something the larger publishing houses want to do on their own because they employ a number of illustrators to do that work - this all goes hand in hand with the fact that in traditional publishing (should you be lucky enough to get a traditional publishing contract) they work for you and with you on marketing your work. They want your book to sell just as much as you do, maybe even more so, because they are paying all the money out to publish your work. If they take over more creative control of you work, like the illustrations, then they may be able to boost sales and achieve a greater return on their initial investment. Hopefully the illustrations meet with your approval because if they don't you may no longer have a say as you have signed over some of your rights to your story. In a way it's not really all your story anymore if you go the traditional publishing route, so be careful and choose wisely. Make sure that you are comfortable and happy with your choice of publisher before you sign a contract. Do your research before you submit to a publisher - you can view their previous works and see if they are a good fit with the vision you have for your book. If they do not meet with your approval through your research, move on and see what the next one has to offer.

Below is a simple dummy outline of where I would like illustrations to go in my story, Danu...
DANU (Dummy)
Nature’s Fairytale
(Cover Illustration 1)  
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***A Children’s Storybook/Picture book***

(Illustration 2)  
                                                                                                       
The world is changing.  It’s growing and flowing and people are moving to live in places they never have before.  People move so quickly that it seems they have no time to see the beauty that is nature. 

Instead people today seem only to tear down nature. They cut down trees and pave over meadows that were once full of flowers. 






(Illustration 3) *This could be the only image to have a "fairy" in it. The rest could just give the illusion through light, shadow, beauty or air of mystery.*


Forests are much smaller than they used to be.  A world of beauty and wonder is disappearing – but you can help me protect it! My name is Fae and I need your help to save the land where my family and I live.

  
(Illustration 4)
Long ago the world was covered in green. There were no houses (at least, not any houses that look like the ones you live in) no skyscrapers and no cars.


There were forests and jungles; Flowers, animals and sparkling waters as far as the eyes could see.  My family called this place Danu, and it was beautiful.

(Illustration 5)
Danu still exists but sadly many people don't believe in it anymore.  People have forgotten what it means to care for nature and they no longer see the beauty that is so close to them. They have even stopped looking for me – they don’t even try anymore.

(Illustration 6)
When you are walking in the forest or playing in a stream you are in Danu.  The next time you go for a hike remember that if you are very quiet and kind to nature and to everything that lives in it – and if you believe – maybe, just maybe, you will see me or one of my friends.

(Illustration 7)
You will know that we are nearby when you see the bright coloured flowers, lush green plants and trees that bloom and grow in the spring and summer.












(Illustration 8) 
In the fall we are in the changing colours of the leaves.












(Illustration  9)
In winter we take shelter in the hollow of trees and dance when the snow flutters and falls on the breeze.












(Illustration 10) 
You can help me save the land of Danu by caring for nature.  When you are at home you can recycle or grow a garden. My friends and I love roses and sunflowers and if you plant them we may come to visit. 












(Illustration 11) 
When you go for a walk in the forest, play at the park or go camping make sure you don’t leave any garbage behind.  It could hurt the animals or plants that call that place home.












(Illustration  12)
The most important way you can help me is by telling your friends and family to care for nature too.  Together you can all learn to recycle, reuse and create your own gardens. By doing so you will be helping to protect the forests, jungles, deserts, tundra and swamps of the world for many years to come.














(Illustration 13) 
You can also speak or think this simple wish the next time you are outside; 

Friend of Fae I am, I may,

Save Danu for me and you.

Your words will carry through the air on the wings of butterflies and I will hear you and know that you are a friend of nature, a friend of Danu – a friend of mine.






(Illustration 14) 
The more people who do these things will mean that my home of Danu stays healthy and strong.  I will continue to have a place to call home and you will forever have beautiful places to visit and care for.

Why just visit though! Danu is, after all, your home too.




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(Illustration 15) 

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